Mother’s-To-Be Day
So for those of you that know me, I’m expecting a baby girl next month, which should make for some interesting posts come late June, early July.
It also made for an interesting Mother’s Day, as my beautiful wife got a cute card from our as-yet-unborn baby to let Mommy know that her daughter was looking forward to having Mommy be a mommy. It was cute, thank you very much. Not that I had anything to do with it, of course. Then Mommy-To-Be got a couple of hand towels as a present. I figure since most of the other towels in the house will be used to wipe our baby’s butt, we can use these two to wipe our faces.
Of course, the towels are brown, so maybe that wasn’t the best idea ever… Oh wait, they’re not brown — they’re the Espresso Bean color. It’s a shame Bed Bath and Beyond is sold out of that color now, though. We won’t be able to replace them if need be. I wonder if that makes them more valuable?
Admittedly, I didn’t do a fabulous job of caring for my wife, outside of our lunch-time celebration of Mom-To-Be (my wife) and my grandmothers. My mother was out of town, so my wife and I, my single grandmother, and my married grandmother and her husband – the five of us – went out for lunch. My parents were out of town for the weekend, so my wife and I actually stayed at their house to help take care of my grandmother (the single one), since she’s been having difficultly getting around lately.
My wife did so much for my grandmother (yes – my grandmother – she’s my wife’s grandmother-in-law) on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. I was working on Friday, and my wife did so much then and throughout the weekend. Oh, and I think I mentioned she’s pregnant? Yeah – she’s like a superhero Mom-To-Be, and not just for me. Dum-did-ee-dee.
So with us taking care of my grandmother, it was tough to do things just the two of us, and I ended up spending much of Sunday evening mowing the grass, taking out the garbage, etc. The whole day, though, not only led me to admire my wife even more than I did before, but it also made me think about how important it is for us to care for our family, particularly those who precede us and are in no small part responsible for us being here.
At lunch on Sunday I got to wheel Grandma around in her new wheelchair — from the car to the elevator to the table, around the buffet while she held the plate and I read her the placards describing the scrumptious treats (mostly) on the tables, etc. She was a trooper and certainly loved being out of the house for a few hours with family. Really, I just loved being able to show our love for our grandmothers, with gifts, sure, but mostly with our time and attention. It meant so much to both of them that we (my wife and I) took them out for lunch and spent part of our weekend with them. It humbles me that my time should seem so valuable to others. I’m learning, though, that spending time with others (e.g., my beautiful wife) is one of the best ways to show them love and to care for them. More of that Quality Time thing that I’m not too good at giving
. As I said above, though, I’m learning!
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